in other news

my last post was a little angry. i can't say i feel much different now. but, i know it takes time. i've been trying to focus on other things. sooo... here we go.


i finally got wedding pictures. not the ones i paid for. those have a few more weeks. but, i have collected all the ones from other people. Ray's mom, Ray's sister, my mom, and my sister- i now have a whole bunch of pictures. some are the same picture, but from different angles. how cool is that?

my only regret is that there are no pictures of my mom :(. she got pictures of us with Ray's family... but she managed to avoid everyone else's camera. (she doesn't like having her picture taken) so i'm REALLY hoping the photographer got some of her.


anyway- here are a few of my favorites:

 this ^ was our version of a unity ceremony.

the minister called the girls up to talk about how special they are to both of us, 

and how we are now officially one family.

 ^ this is my dad and me. 

 ^ this is us with Ray's family.

 my girls :)

 this is the view from the overlook where we got married.

(it's pittsburgh)